Queer Catch Up: Friday, Nov. 15, 2019
Welcome to back to YUNGMIGA’s Friday Queer Catch-Up, a weekly post where folks can catch up recent LGBTQ+ news and pop culture.
NEWS ROUND UP
Researchers from Boston University, Boston Medical Center and Harvard Medical School analyzed data of more than 70,500 cancer survivors to try and determine if there was a difference in quality of care and quality of life due to sexual orientation. Researches found that out of the cancer survivors, 1,931 were self-identified as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or other gender non-conforming person. Researchers found that overall, more lesbian, gay and bisexual women than men faced differences in quality of care. For example, 42.7 percent of lesbian, gay and bisexual women had more difficult time obtaining access to care compared with 28 percent of heterosexual women.
Super Happy Fun America (SHFA), the organizers of Boston’s “Straight Pride” event in August, announced they were heading to Dallas, Texas, to support a similar event held by "Protecting Our Next Generations," (PONG) on Saturday, Nov. 16. However, one of the event's speakers announced the event was going to be postponed due to the city asking for a fee.
Nikki Araguz Loyd, trans rights activist from Texas, dies at age 44-years-old. Her cause of death is unknown at this time. The Houston Chronicle reported:
"Transgender advocates in Texas praised Loyd for her commitment since the 1990s for supporting transgender rights. She most notably fought a high-profile court battle over the legitimacy of her marriage to a Wharton County firefighter who was killed during a massive fire in 2010. She courted reality TV, became a public speaker and rode in the Houston Gay Pride Parade. She also worked as an entrepreneur in Houston and founded the Transgender National Alliance in 2015.
“Every part of me hurts,” her husband William Loyd said in a Facebook post Thursday. “I can't stop crying. Our kids can't stop crying. The Matriarchal part of our family is just gone and will never be replaced. I'll love you forever TigerLilly. I'll never love again, you were and always will be the love of my life.”
Funeral arrangements are pending."
Gov. Brian Kemp announced Angela Duncan will fill a newly-created seat on the Gwinnett County Superior Court bench in Georgia.
It is believed Kemp is the first openly LGBTQ+ judge that Kemp has appointed. Duncan accepted Kemp’s appointment on last week “with tremendous gratitude and appreciation,” according to the AJC, “I will continue to serve the citizens of Gwinnett County with the same dedication that I have served them over the last 15 years as a magistrate judge... I look forward to serving beside those who have been my role models and mentors during my career.”
Charles Russell Rhines, 63-year-old a convicted killer, was given a lethal injection at approximately 7.35 p.m. last Monday at the state prison in Sioux Falls. The U.S. Supreme Court denied a last-minute appeal despite claims that jurors on Rhines' case were biased against him for being gay.
This execution is shy of three decades after Rhines killed 22-year-old Donnivan Schaeffer by stabbing him to death in 1992.
Rhines' attorney Shawn Nolan said it was "very sad and profoundly unjust" that Rhines was executed before a court could hear evidence of the alleged gay bias that Rhines claims influenced the jury's decision in sentencing him to die, the Associated Press reported.
Indianapolis City-County Council voters elected candidates Alison Brown, Ethan Evans, and Keith Potts to the body, also reelecting Zach Adamson, according to local TV station WTHR. They represented a record number of LGBTQ candidates, reports another station, WRTV.
Advocate reported: "Brown, who identifies as queer, becomes the first woman from the LGBTQ community to serve on the council. The LGBTQ Victory Fund made note of election so many queer candidates in a city that just three years ago served as Vice President Mike Pence’s home base when he was governor of Indiana. “A rainbow wave came crashing into Mike Pence’s backyard Tuesday night, with voters sending three openly LGBTQ candidates to the Indianapolis City-County Council,” said Annise Parker, president and CEO of LGBTQ Victory Fund.“While LGBTQ people continue to be severely underrepresented in the state, these victories will inspire more LGBTQ Hoosiers to consider a run for office and make change in a state that lags much of the country in LGBTQ protections.” Parker made particular note of Brown."
Rep. Ilhan Omar (D.-Minn.) quoted a CBS News Tweet of a clip of House Minority Leader Kevin McCarthy (R.-Calif.) saying that the current House of Representatives' legacy was that it had issued more subpoenas then laws passed.
Omar took to Twitter to say otherwise: “We’ve passed hundreds of bills,” Omar responded to McCarthy in her tweet. “To improve the election security your party has compromised, to give LGBTQIA+ people the protections it has denied, and to raise the wages of workers it has ignored.”
Vox reported: "The change would apply to a wide range of programs, including those aimed at HIV prevention and treatment for opioid addiction and other substance abuse. But advocates say it appears targeted at the child welfare system, where it could have devastating effects, including keeping children from finding homes and even funneling them into the prison system."
“If you turn away a qualified, loving family that wants to open their home to a child, then you’re not placing a child,” Denise Brogan-Kator, chief policy officer of Family Equality, a group that advocates for the rights of LGBTQ families, told Vox.
IN CASE YOU MISSED IT: LGBTQ+ ARTS, LIFE AND CULTURE
People are raving online that Frog and Toad are the “ultimate queer relationship goals.”
Kesha talked about what it's like being bisexual in the music industry and being in an open relationship with her current boyfriend. She told Out magazine: "'He’s a sweetheart, but he also lets me be me,' she said. 'You know, I’ll call him and be like, ‘I had fun tonight, I met a sweet girl and we had a really good time.’ And he’ll say, ‘Cool, babe, I love you.’ It’s so nice. … He knows that I’m just a wild spirit that needs to run free, and that I always come back to the barn for apples from my boy!'"
Lesbian pastor Jacinta Nzilani Kilonzo. (Tuko Kenya via YouTube)
Proud lesbian and Kenyan pastor, Jacinta Nzilani, opened up about her attraction to women, a 25-year-long marriage to a man and her new life in an emotional interview with UK radio station. “When I was 16 I realised that I was attracted to women more than men. It is not a habit, it is something that is inside me,” Nzilani said according to Standard Media.
According to Pink News UK, when Nzilani was 18-years-old, she joined a convent and become a nun; however, within the first few days, she was “inappropriately touched by a priest.”
Nzilani left and returned home and was quickly “married off to a man” who was reportedly almost twice her age.
According to Pink News UK Nzilani said, “Marriage was tough and I was not interested in sex. Whenever we got intimate it was by force and I hated it.”
They had three children.
“My husband succumbed to cancer in 2008 after a 25-year marriage and this affected me… My in-laws turned against me and some even beat me up saying I had brought a curse on their family,” she recalled.” Nzilani said according to Standard Media.
Screenshot of Mikael Chukwuma Owunna's online portfolio "about" section.
Mikael Chukwuma Owunna is an “award-winning queer Nigerian-Swedish artist, photographer, Fulbright Scholar and engineer born and raised in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania.”
Owunna came out as gay on MySpace in 2005 and he told NPR that many of his Nigeran family members viewed his sexual orientation as “un-African.” Owunna was raised in Pittsburgh, where he still lives, but throughout his life, he has gone home to Nigeria during the holidays. NPR reported: “a priestess performed several forced exorcisms to wwash the 'gay devil' out.’" Owunna’s new book, “Limitless Africans,” challenges the beliefs that LGBTQ+ Africans are “un-African.”
His online portfolio states:
“After enduring years of severe alienation from my Nigerian heritage and a series of exorcisms in Nigeria as well, I started Limit(less) to reclaim my African-ness and queerness on my own terms.
Limit(less) is an award-winning documentary photography project on LGBTQ African immigrants in North America and Europe. Between 2013 and 2017, I shot and documented the stories of over 50 individuals for the project in 10 countries toward my goal of debunking the myth that it is “un-African” to be LGBTQ. In the process I found that there are no safe spaces anywhere for LGBTQ Africans - even in the "liberal" West.
"The project is the first-of-its-kind to document recent LGBTQ African immigrant and asylum seeker experiences across the West; visually expanding conceptions of African-ness and queerness. It is a collaborative response between me and my community to redefine what it means to be an immigrant, African and queer in North America and Europe at this time. To confront, with our self-love and stories, the oppressive narratives that say we should not exist. We are Limitless.”
The New York Times' By Reyna Grande wrote a rave review about Jaquira Díaz's debut book: Ordinary Girls. Diaz writes about what it was like growing up black, Puerto Rican, poor and queer. Grande writes: "Told in four parts, the story opens in 1985 in Puerto Rico, where Díaz, her older brother and their baby sister are being raised in the impoverished household of a drug-dealing father and an erratic mother. Papi is a complicated man: A lover of books and women, he went from being an activist — he 'spent his college days writing protest poems and studying literature and the work of independentistas” — to selling cocaine (a.k.a. “perico”) on the street and cheating on Díaz’s mother. It’s through him that Díaz learns about the island’s troubled past, and her family’s African ancestry: “In my father’s books, and in my father’s own stories, I would find our history.'"
We Both Laughed In Pleasure: The Selected Diaries of Lou Sullivan is a story about of Lou Sullivan, a gay trans man, finding his way through the shifting social, political and medical conventions of the second half of the 20th century. Sullivan kept journals from 11-years-old until his AIDS-related death at 39-years-old. Sullivan's entries have been called "sensual, lascivious, challenging, quotidian and poetic."
The diary is complicated and disrupts society's normative trans narratives. The collection of entries are from 24 of Sullivan's diaries. They reveal Sullivan’s self-articulation and complexity of one human being.
STILL HUNGRY? DIVE INTO THESE READS.
Rainbow Rant: Dear Gay Inc., We’re Breaking Up by Joy Ellison | Columbus Alive
Here's How Young Queer Couples Are Redefining 'Straight' Marriages by Michelle Garcia | MTV
Why Do Curators Still Equate The ‘Queer Experience’ With Pain? by Annabel Paulsen | Document Journal
A Poignant Tour of a Disappearing Queer Neighborhood in Portland by Erin Langner | Hyper Allergic
Bombs and Blasphemy: The Risks of Watching Gay Art in Russia by Daria Litvinova | Reuters
'We're All Struggling': Writer Saeed Jones Reflects On Identity And Acceptance by Terry Gross | NPR’s Fresh Air
Testimonial: Sexuality Isn’t Linear by Kayla Brown | Sacramento State University’s State Hornet
Life Lessons From Gay Guru Johnson Chong by Michael Luong | The Advocate
Gay Penguin Dads Adopt A Second Time by John Paul King | The Washington Blade
Survey Sheds Light On Fluid Teen Sexual Orientation by Matt Shipman | futurity
What Is The LGBTQ+ Rainbow Poppy And Why Is It Controversial? by Phoebe Cooke | The Sun UK
Queer Closet Offers An Safe Space For LGBTQ+ Students To Find Clothing Options by Tommie Lorene | University of Arizona’s Arizona Daily Wildcat
Opinion: How The ‘Gay Best Friend’ Trope Has Not Disappeared, But Evolved by Blake Hunter | Boise State University's The Arbiter
What Does a Chinese Company Want with Gay Hookup App Grindr? by Steven Blum | L.A. Magazine
When Florida Had A Committee To Terrorize Gay People by Ranjani Chakraborty, Melissa Hirsch | VOX
Evan Rachel Wood on Bisexuality, Rage And Life After Trauma by Anna Borges | Self
One In Five Teens Report Change In Sexual Orientation During Adolescence, Study Finds by Chelsea Ritschel | Independent UK
Transgender Woodgrove Student Speaks Out Against Videos Regarding LGBTQ Protections Policy by John Battiston | Loudoun Times-Mirror